Maybe it shows up as a thought you don’t say out loud. The thing that gets you off is watching your partner get off. And right behind it, the doubt: is this even dominance, or am I just a generous… Read moreHow to Be a Pleasure Dom: The Skill That Controls Pleasure

The moment the pull toward dominance shows up is usually quiet. Maybe you’re across the table from your partner and you feel it: the wish to set the pace, to lead, to hold the wheel. Right behind it comes the… Read moreHow to Be a Dom: A Step-by-Step Guide to Becoming a Good One