Useful Polyamorous Dating Tips from Real 3Fun Users

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Calm and collected tips for polyamorous dating

Try to get to know the couple/person before doing anything to make sure they aren’t completely phsyco
Try to be comfortable and not awkward with the sexual situation
Try to pick someone you are attracted to
Learn what they like and don’t like in the bedroom that way you know what to do and what not to do
Always use protection so there is less chance of contracting the disease because you never know. It could happen.
Tips for having a successful date
1. Always be upfront and honest.
whether it be online or in-person, it’s important to be honest and clear about whatever it is you’re looking for. this allows the other person/people to know your intentions from the beginning, allowing them to decide if they want the same things you do.
2. Scheduling a meet.
I have found a super common occurrence across a lot of dating apps and that’s when it comes to scheduling a time and place to meet finally, one party adapts the ghost mentality. If you’re not comfortable with meeting or something comes up, don’t hide and ignore contact, it’s better to chat about your concerns or anxieties as opposed to just leaving the other person in the dark.
3. Don’t take yourself to seriously and have fun.
lastly, it’s always good to remember to have fun!! don’t try and be someone you’re not, smile and laugh lots and don’t be afraid to be a little bit vulnerable. this is how some of the best connections are made.
 Stay safe stay having fun

1. Tips such as meeting in a public place first. To get comfortable.

2. Bring an std free test for first-time encounters

3. Doesn’t have to be a porn.. just fun. Maintaining positive energy. And respectful interest amongst married couple goes a long way.

Tips for building healthy polyamorous connections

1. Communication is more important than anything else you do the whole night.
2. It’s okay if things feel new or unfamiliar at first. Growth often comes with a little awkwardness.
3. Don’t be that creepy online couple looking for their third.
4. The least creepy way to meet your third is by being the most interesting couple.
5. Find someone who is looking for the same things you are.
6. If you’re doing it with your partner, make the whole process feel like a team activity. Come up with rules together. Find your third together. Plan the night together.
7. Finding a third person who everyone is attracted to can take a really, really long time.
8. You will definitely get weirded out the first time that a third hand touches you.
9. Don’t ever leave someone feeling like a third wheel.
Communication leads to fun

1)Communication is the most important thing when exploring a new poly connection. Make sure everyone feels comfortable and on the same page. The more you communicate, the more you can learn, grow, and explore together.

2)Find someone who is looking for the same thing as you are.   A lot of people have difficulty expressing what they are looking for or what they want due to lack of knowledge and vocabulary.   It’s always best to clearly state and asks the other party what is being sought after at the very beginning.

3)If you are a couple, ensure you are on the same page.  The easiest way to do so is communication and developing rules that you both agree with.  Then stick to them.

4)Be open-minded and go slow.   Some think they can handle watching their partner with another person, but when it comes down to it they can’t.   Ensure the pace is comfortable for each member, as some will back out or want to stop

 

Dating tips for the adventurous couple

1. Keep an open mind – don’t just dismiss a profile at first glance, read what they have to say and match to find out more. They might end up being perfect for you.

2. If you’re a couple, post pictures of you together. You’re much more likely to seem trustworthy and get matched.

3. Make sure you’re profile says something about you. It doesn’t have to be an essay, but try to make it more than one line. Make sure it provides something interesting but also doesn’t give too much away.

4. Be brave. Arrange meetups, go for drinks. Don’t use this as a messaging platform, find someone/people you like and meet them to find out more. You can get a great impression from a meetup. Just make sure you meet in a public place!

Polyamory Dating Tips for Couples

1. Agree with your partner first. Don’t start meeting new people until you’re both sure you want to explore polyamory together.

2. Set up your profile thoughtfully. Include ages, high-quality photos of both partners, and a bit about yourselves. It helps attract compatible connections.

3. Start with a casual meet-up. A coffee or chat is a great way to get a real sense of someone in person.

4. Practice safe and respectful intimacy. Always prioritize consent and boundaries.

5. Have fun! Enjoy the journey of meeting new people and learning together.

 5 tips to be a hoot tipper

 1. Don’t be pushy for sex, 3somes have to have an organic feel to them.

2. Discuss ground rules beforehand know what your partners are comfortable with, ie kissing: tongue or tongue? Light pecks or deep passion? When jumping into someone else’s relationship it’s good to know the road ahead.

3. Be inclusive try to make sure everyone gets a slice of the pie.

4. Go with the flow.

5. Know what you doing, exercise the areas you will be using, practice.. if you can’t satisfy one partner why would you want to piss off two?

Dating in the electronic age. A Canadian Pirates guide to success and failure. 

I suppose the easiest tip is cool, be casual, be yourself!

Don’t lie!

About anything!

It’s a waste of time.

This includes pictures on this and any other dating site for that matter.  Use current photos… it’s really important to represent yourself truthfully especially in a class of dating where it’s pretty imperative that you be trustworthy.
We have had the experience where we can across a profile (with a different app) where it was two guys that were putting themselves out there to couples to meet up and have fun.  The picture was of an early 30’s hardbody guy and we were like “fu€k yeah! Let’s meet up!”

When we got together it turned out to be a guy in his early 50’s wearing track pants and a baseball cap and hoodie.

How disappointing was that!  And we wasted our weekend that we could have planned fun times with some real people!

Don’t be that guy! (Pretty sure his name was Richard!)

Don’t be pushy.  It comes across as desperate.  It’s a turn-off.  Just relax. You are an amazing interesting person. We want to get to know you before we get naked with you.  You have to have some personality. Some spark. And moreover you have to be respectful. We are letting you into our lives.  SHE is letting you into our lives because after all it’s her that has the yay or nay in all of this other than the few rare instances where there is a Dom sub relationship going on and even then I would suspect she really does have the final say.

 Simple and perfect tips for the first date!

First impressions are always important. …

Make date plans for somewhere you’ll feel comfortable. …

Be confident. …

Don’t do all the talking. …

Keep the conversation fun. …

Avoid the ‘ex’ conversation. …

Turn off your phone. …

Share the bill.

5 Tips of 3Way Etiquette:
1.)NEVER make the man feel emasculated or that’s the end of that.
2.)Couples, prior to engaging in a 3way set ground rules so everyone is on the same page.
3.)ALWAYS Use Protection!!!!!
4.)Men, be sure to focus on the women…both women, cumming prior to you cumming. If you don’t satisfy BOTH women then you’ve failed as a man in a 3way.
5.)The most important thing is to be safe. Never mix drugs and alcohol when exploring new connections—it’s risky. If you feel like you need to be out of your mind to enjoy it, then this kind of experience probably isn’t right for you.
Essential Things to Know Before you Meet up for group play!

Tip 1.) Always go out and meet in a public place as a group together to sit and talk and get to know one another.  Just because you think someone is cute, or seem to connect well through an app or text message doesn’t mean you will hit it off in person.  Just because you are meeting this person for the possibility of sex doesn’t mean you can skip the part where some chemistry and intimacy is created, by TALKING AND listening and getting to know the person(s)

2.) Establish things that are off limits to you or your partner.  Be clear and specific about things you are not willing to do, upfront.  Don’t feel bad about them, and don’t be pressured to change your mind after you set your ground rules.

3.) Don’t be a shitty person who tries to talk someone into doing something after they tell you they don’t do that.  It’s a good way to get blackballed from the cool kids club.

4.) If you’re straight and someone else is bi or gay, RESPECT THEM and be nice, don’t talk about how “gross” or nasty, wrong, etc their lifestyle is.  Who are you to judge them?

5.) Be willing to push yourself and experience new sensations without JEALOUSY!

6.)If you struggle with possessiveness or fear your partner connecting with someone else, exploring polyamory might not be for you right now. It can lead to jealousy, tension, and unhappiness for everyone involved.

 Rock your love life INTELLIGENTLY.

Before exploring a polyamorous connection, you need trust and honesty in your relationship—without them, it can create problems for everyone involved.

Make sure to set boundaries from the start
Be open and honest, it makes a huge difference.
Go with your gut feeling, if something feels off, it usually is.
Don’t ever send money or personal information to someone you haven’t met in person (social security, bank account info etc.) There are a lot of scams in social media who prey on the lonely!
It should go without saying but not everyone is who they say they are.
Always tell someone where you’re going and who you’re going with before meeting someone. If possible, give someone the other person’s info just in case anything were to happen.
Do’ & Dont’s before swinging
1 Never match anyone who has not completed h.is/her photo verification as it is highly important.
2. Never meet anyone directly at home or hotel stay without meeting that person over a cup of coffee or tea or beer.
3. Clearly mention in your bio what you are looking for so that other profiles can match you without much time getting wasted.
4. Last but not the least ‘Stay Safe, Stay Naughty’
What to Do Before You Do It
1.) Before you even begin to fill out your profile what limits have you discussed? Have you set/written down boundaries? Do these boundaries come from harmful places such as a dead bedroom, unresolved relationship issues, fear of losing your partner, etc?
2.) Baby Steps for the first 3 dates. This isn’t a suggestion for every couple but for most under 30 give yourselves time to adjust and don’t bounce from fling to fling. Limit to one couple a month <max> for the first 3 months. And have a debrief about the pros and cons. Check-in with each other about how last night affected you. Wait a week. Check-in again.
How to have an awesome polyamorous connections
Well, the best way to grab attention is to make sure your pictures are amazing, the first impression is always the last impression. So look great in your attire, smell good and everything would be fine.
Be respectful, try to stitch a suitable time and give the couple time to respond. Sometimes people are busy so HAVE SOME PATIENCE!
Even if she is cucking her husband, the guy is still her husband, never forget that. So be respectful of that fact.
Try to take something with you if you are meeting for the first time, its like a date but a 3some one. Great way to make friends
Always practice safe sex, don’t forget to get a condom along :p
7 easy steps to a successful night
1. Be yourself
2. Always bring something when meeting a couple. Wine or a gift etc….
3. Always be respectful
4. Always bring protection
5. Preferably meet in a public place for the first time build a connection.
6. Never share personal information
7. Have fun
 BE COOL, STAY SAFE AND HAVE FUN!
1.  Be honest (eg your age)
2.  Be respectful. Swingers are normal decent people who just like to have extra fun
3.  Photographs should not be more than 12 months old nor should photographs be edited or enhanced
4. Be patient for a reply from anyone who you have contacted. People lead busy lives these days
5. Don’t arrange to meet anyone unless you intend to do so. It’s not fair to waste other people’s time
6. Always arrange to meet for the first time in a public place
7. Personal hygiene is a must.. nothing worse than meeting unclean people
8. Always be polite and respectful.. pushy people are a turn off
A Gentleman’s Perspective for 3Fun

1.  Be yourself. From a male perspective, women will ALWAYS have better intuition than us. So if a guy is full of bs, she/they will know.

2. Be honest. Again, the intuition thing and living in a digital age, ppl will usually dig out the truth.

3. Be confident. Women naturally love a man who is on the right side of confidence and not cockiness. Own your strengths and use them to your advantage to fulfill their fantasies.

4.  Before the 3way, make sure ur partner n you know the boundaries/limits you set so that the third/fourth person doesn’t cross them too.

5.  Don’t drink too much or become incapacitated by drugs. It will lead to erectile problems or lack of lady lubrication. More than anything, you might get into problems by way of overdoing it, legal issues, consent.

6. Have fun. Life’s too short for monogamy, enjoy each other and above all, yourself!

Best TIps for Polyamory

Things can get uncomfortable fast. A solid foundation in your relationship is a must. Take the time and be clear on why you’re doing this and get on the same page with your partner. And remember, there’s no going back after you witness your partner with someone else, which often is found to be difficult for many.

Talk about it.

Before meeting anyone new, be crystal clear with your partner about why you want to explore polyamory together.

Answering the following really help!

Do you both share the same fantasy and feel safe exploring together?

Are you equally comfortable with trying something new? Or are you just trying to please the other

Is this an attempt to rescue a rocky or drowning relationship?

If you’re exploring polyamory just to please your partner, rekindle romance, or save a struggling relationship, pause and reconsider. Doing it for those reasons usually creates more tension and drama for everyone involved. It’s better to explore other ways to strengthen your relationship first.

Prepare for the worst.

It may be a sliver but st some point Jealousy will speed through your mind.   Count on it happening whether it be eye contact made from your partner and the third, or louder screams or more pleasure.
To minimize the jealous, drama, hurt and embarrassment prepare ahead of time.  Imagine how things will go in your head, your partner with someone else, and determine whether you can handle it or not.
Talk with your partner and explore how you both see things occurring and talk about what could possibly go wrong.   This not only opens communication but also keeps the couple on the same page while preparing them to handle any situation better.
Talk about what you both are ok allowing and not allowing.  Create hard limits that together you aren’t comfortable passing.  Establish boundaries and rules on how and when communication, play, and contact is permitted and when it’s not.    Talk about fantasies you both may have and want to fulfill, together seek to fulfill each other’s fantasies rather than just adding a third or fourth.  Your partner’s safety and desires should always remain your top two priorities. Then fun.   If you keep their desires as the priority, it sets the stage for a healthier and happier relationship that grows closer together not apart.

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